If there were just three magic words that you could utter
that would bring back your ex, would you utter them?
Are you experiencing feelings of?
Grief?
Anger?
Shock?
Despair?
Nostalgia?
Irritation?
Depression?
No human heart can know
How deep its love, how great -
Until two lovers part and go,
And then it is too late.
Daniel Carter
Im Still In Love My Ex May Not Be
Do you feel that you could honestly say, "I'm still in love, but my ex isn't."
Then I can understand your frustration because this can be an emotionally difficult situation. First of all, how do you know that your ex isn't still in love with you, too? Your ex may have made it quit clear to you that they are not in love you anymore, and that's not impossible. But it's also not impossible that your ex does not still have strong feelings for you. It may sound strange but, many couples who still love each other very much break up for all sorts of reasons.
If you can honestly say to yourself, "I'm still in love my ex", then who's to say that your ex is still not in love with you. However, just because the both of you may still be in love with each other it's not a forgone conclusion that you should try to get back together. The pair of you broke up for a reason. Even if you didn't want the relationship to come to an end and it was all your ex's doing, you still really need to think hard about whether you should try to get back together. It's a "hard call" for a person to try and think back and find the reasons why a break-up might be for the best. It isn't easiest thing to do just after the break up when you're still in so much pain and frustration, but as time passes you'll probably see that ending the relationship might have been the best thing to do.
Feeling of denial? Can't sleep? Inability to concentrate?
Attention drifting into the past? Short temper/hostility towards
others?
Well! - you may be suffering from a
broken heart.
It's not really broken - that's just a "metaphor" to describe how it feels
when you've just split up with your loved one.
Broken hearts are not usually life-threatening, but they can certainly make life feel like hell! Right?
If ending the affair was mutual and you are still having a hard time because of the feeling of: "I'm still in love, my ex should be here with me," then it's quite important that you take a look at "why did you agreed to end the relationship in the first place?" Yes, there is likelihood that a mutual agreement to split-up may have been mistake. But if you'll really look back into the past and look for the reasons you both had for bringing the relationship to an end, you might find (as many others have) that's better to stay in love your ex from a distance and do your best to work through the sadness and loneliness rather than make a mistake and try to reignite the romance, once more.
"I'm still in love; and my ex seems to wants to get back together."
While this could give you hope and the feeling that the both of you could pull together and work things out between you, and then live happily ever after, don't be fooled or misled into believing that it will be easy. The reasons behind the initial break up are still there. If you did work things out and got back together, what will have changed from the last time you where together? Your relationship might go well for a while because you're both so happy to be back together, but true relationships are not about the short term.
If you ended the relationship thinking, I'm still in love my ex, and your ex was of the same frame of mind so you got back together, don't be surprised if you go through a honeymoon period just as you did when you were a new couple - and your relationship was fresh and exciting. You'll both feel like you saved the relationship and prevented one another other from making a grave mistake. But that feel-good factor, and honeymoon period will eventually wear off. And then what will be in store for the both you - more pain again?
So! Before you do look at trying to get back your ex you need to look at, how you going to prevent the initial problems that caused the relationship to "run on rock ground" in the first place from re-appearing and making you want to spit up and part ways again?
You don't need us to tell you that having a broken heart is painful and frustrating. So ...
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"I could see him in the sun light; I could feel him in the moon light,I could hear him in the wind, He was all around me, below me, above me,and deep within me. But still; I knew not, where he was."
"My heart sits like a ship imprisoned
on a becalmed sea, no north, no south,
no east or west that It can go.
O! For the return on my love,
Who like the wind will send it free!
1. Walk away, if you possibly can, and search for "greener pastures" elsewhere.
2. Dwell in sorrow and remorse and never forget what should have been.
3. Get back your ex.
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