Would you like to learn how to pull your ex back?
Would you like to never hear that so lame "I need my space" excuse again?
Have you heard that one ?
Guys use this one a lot...
and girls, judging from all of the questions I get, are using
it more and more as well.
Women start spending more time with their girlfriends.
Guys stop calling as often.
These are the early signs, but generally we give them the benefit of the doubt... But sometimes we find out what they have been telling us doesn't match with what they
are doing.
The big question...the killer question is what do you do then?
They say they have to spend more time studying, but then we find out through the "grapevine" that they have been out partying or clubbing.
We have a natural tendency to want to confront them ...
"Hey...What's up?...You said you need to spend more time
studying and I find out you were at TGI Friday's?"
Now...this is the wrong...wrong...wrong way to handle it!
This is not the way to pull your ex back.
Because what you are doing is PUSHING! And as you may
know,for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction...
But it is so true in relationships. You PUSH... They PULL...
Pull away...
They feel they have no space.
So what do you need to do instead? You need to PULL! NOT push!
Do you see how all of this relates to pulling your ex back?
So what is pulling?
Pulling is attraction. Not just on a physical level...although let's be real, it does help.
Okay...it's about working with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend so that
they feel like they have already got the space they want ...
and so they actually start to feel like they want to get into your space a bit more.
See how that could be about 'pulling', not 'pushing'?
Give your ex space. Don't chew it all up! It's not candy, you know! and even if was you will always make and keep more friend's if you shared it!
If you really want to master the principles of attraction
and pull your ex back to you ...For good!
There's quite a lot to know, but it is not rocket science.
But the first rule to, pull back your ex is simple! (Just because it's simple doesn't mean it's always easy!)
More "problems" start popping up at work and school.
"My grades are slipping" or "We have a big project at work."
A general attitude that makes you feel like you are being avoided
When she said "I need my space," I didn't realize it was the beginning of the end!
"I need my space"
(Pull your ex back with the-'Push-Pull' theory)
