Men frequently say they can't figure women out, and that women
are too complex to understand. Well, for most women, both young
and old, it is the exact opposite. I know hundreds of woman that
would give almost anything to understand what makes a man
"tick."
Even though women want to know what goes on in the
heads of their men, men are often very reluctant to share what
is in their hearts. What's a woman supposed to do?
Rather than trying to go in to detail of all the differences between
the sexes, it would save a lot of time to focus on a few areas that
any woman can understand.
1) For example: Did you know that most men are far more sensitive than women? And that nearly all men don't have the ability to recover from an emotional trauma as quickly as most women do? Because of this, men try to stop themselves from getting too deeply upset. When a man hears he should just "let his feelings out," he then translates this into, "If I let my feelings out, I probably won't not be able to control them, and people may laugh."
2) Contrary to the Hollywood movie stereotypes, men don't like to fight. For men, conflict is not simply about resolving an issue. Fighting, to a man, means one has got to win and also the opposite side needs to be completely defeated. Men will try to err towards conflicts that are strictly non-emotional. Why? Because non-emotional conflicts are less threatening to them. Once a conflict starts to become emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are trying to punish you, but they are probably most likely desperately trying not to lose control.
3) Men have a deep instinct to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures try to preach, the fact is that the vast majority of all men in the world do get married. Although the freedom of being single and a free spirit has its appeal, it comes with two major drawbacks - it can be painfuly lonely for a man, and secondly being single is against his basic instincts. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is more important to most men than finding a woman who is beautiful. After all, it was a man that once said, "Beauty is only skin deep."
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