It's not really possible for me or anyone else to tell you the best ways to get your ex boyfriend back, because we don't know you or why you're split-up. But, I do know some ideas that have worked for thousands of people and could possible work for you also.
Of course, this advice is not set in stone so you may have to modify it a little to suit your situation. But for the most part, this data has helped many from all walks of life so it could also be of use for you too.
If you want to get your ex boy friend back, you have to look at the relationship you had with him and try to isolate where did thing start going wrong. I am assuming that the pair of you where deep in love at one time, weren't you? Well, the question is: what changed?
In most relationships the changes occur slowly and kind of sneak up on you and catch you on the blind side so finding an answer this question may be a bit more difficult than it would seem.
I'm not talking about what the both of you argued over, that is different in almost all cases from what actually happened to be the root cause of each others resentment. I doubt whether any relationship on this earth came to an end because someone forgot to wipe their feet before entering the house, or because one member of the partnership turned up a few minutes late for dinner.
These are the things that only irritate people when their already upset or mad about something else. But the big question is: what is it that is leading to that resentment? You will generally find it is probably more than one thing. In many cases couples just gradually drift apart. They got focused on other things like work or hobbies and then stop connecting with each other.
When they finally realised what happened and tried to reconnect they found that they had drifted so far apart that they almost became strangers. They just do not get the other one, it's like they are on different pages.
If this has happened with you, then the good news is it can be reversed. The both of you can turn back the clocks but only if the two of you are willing to make the effort and try. It probably won't be easy, but if both of you want it badly enough then it can be done.
We all like quick solutions to our problems and if you are in pain I am sure you would love to find the fastest way to get back your ex boyfriend. The truth is though; unfortunately there are no quick fixes or magic bullet - at least one that will last.
Another thing you can do while you are trying to working all this out is to do your best to breath. Try to get some space and let your emotions calm down. You have a life that still needs to be lived. Even though it is important to find a workable solutions to your relationship problems it is just as important to give yourself permission to try to slow and calm down.
Actually, that can be vital to the success of your plan of how to get your ex back. If you appear to be in desperation you may scare your ex off further. You have to let them see the, confidant, strong but humble person they first fell in love with.
