After a break-up with an ex, it is not uncommon for those afflicted by the pain,
sadness and horrible, gross feeling of helpless frustration to attempt to try and
beg their ex to come back to them.
Why you don't - beg an ex back?
But does it work? Can you get an ex back by begging them back? Well, there is
certainly enough evidence that says yes! Begging an ex back for a second chance
can work, but only for a short time.
Nearly all relationships that are 'solved' in this manner break up again very shortly
afterwards, only to leave the rejected lover feeling twice as bad as the first break-up.
But why?
Well, you have to take a look at: what is begging?
We have all seen beggars on the streets of our towns and cities begging for a few dimes from charitable passers-by. Begging is an admission that we can't make it on our own and therefore have to rely on charitable hand-outs from others.
Now I am not knocking charity. Anyone can need a helping hand now and again and without the goodwill of others, the world would be a disastrous place. But would you want to get an ex back that was only acting charitably towards you?!
So! You can see … to get an ex back by begging more than likely means you will get an ex back that feels sorry for you.
Ah! I can hear you saying, "I really don't care - I loved them to bits
and I want my ex back at any cost and under any circumstances." The broken-hearted will sometimes accept any circumstances to get an ex back.
But! How would you feel walking down the road holding the hand of the person you love, and knowing they were only holding yours because they felt sorry for you?
How long could you do that for?
How long do you think your charitable lover could maintain their charitable status before the inevitable will happen?
Another bust-up!
And who will once again suffer the torturous agony of a lost love?
You.
So! Yes, it is possible to get an ex back by begging, but to keep them may be a completely different matter.
If you were considering using the begging method to get your ex back then I hope that I have successfully talked you out of it. Instead of begging to get your ex back may I recommend the "Win back your ex mini course" They are far more effective, more permanent and far less humbling.
Tony